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Origin:
bef. 900; (n.) ME; OE lufu, c. OFris luve, OHG luba, Goth lub?; (v.) ME lov(i)en, OE lufian; c. OFris luvia, OHG lub?n to love, L lub?re (later lib?re) to be pleasing; akin to..

Synonyms:
Devotion; worship; fancy; liking; passion; romance; amour; fondness; loyalty…

Definition:
–noun:
A profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection; a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart…

-verb:
To have love or affection for. To have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for. To have a strong liking for. Take great pleasure in. To need or require; benefit greatly from. To embrace and kiss…
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Ever since letters and words have been invented, people have been trying so hard to identify what love is. Who knows? Maybe even before that invention..i bet cavemen were extremely perplexed about that matter as well.
So, all through the ages and time, philosophers, theorists, thinkers, writers, inventors, mathematicians, scientists, workers, ordinary men, fools, politicians, young, old, girls, boys, simply ALL are seeking a definition, or a description to that –still exactly unidentifiable- thing called love.
Walk down the street and ask people about what they think about it, and you'll get a million different replies..!

Love makes "la vie en rose" all year long!
mmmmm…okay well actually love does not make "la vie en rose", because in fact "la vie" is dark in winter, glazing hot in summer, dusty in spring, and gloomy in autumn. So if you see it that "pinkish" I recommend you go see a doctor because you might be suffering from glaucoma.

Break-up lines deciphered: it's not you, it's me

Line 1: it's not you, it's me


Caution: no one ever buys those 5 words


Five words. That's what it takes to end a relationship, beat someone while they're down and break a heart forever.


Five words that are all you need to be left speechless, with tears running down your face although in your partner's opinion they make it easier for you to accept the breakup.


Five words that tell you something while delivering a whole other message. Even Wikipedia couldn't understand what the sentence meant.


I checked online dictionaries for an interpretation for this number 1 famous break up line and Urban Dictionary was the only one that could relate to how I felt.


It's not you; it's me apparently means (according to Urban Dictionary.com):


1. I no longer find you attractive, but I can't say that because then I'll feel guilty


2. A great excuse for breaking up with someone while trying not to hurt their feelings.


Famously used by George in Seinfeld, he got upset when he found out someone used his line and claims he invented it.


3. The reason one gives when terminating a relationship with someone who turns out to be repulsive and/or mind-numbingly boring.


4. Female slang for: It is you.


What I just want to know, who came up with this line?


Who on Earth thought that this line would actually cushion the blow?


To some people, this is the blow. If it really isn't me and if it really is you then why did we get together in the first place?


Why did we go through the emotional anguish and struggle all these years for you just to end it with this half-ass reason? I mean guys come on there must be something else behind that sentence that wants to get out , but your ego just keeps hiding it so you wouldn't lose face .


Why is this sentence so offensive although it doesn't carry any explicit words? Why is this sentence one of the few, we dread the most?


Why does this sentence make more sense the other way around, being it's not me, it's you?!
So many questions that were left un-answered just because someone thought "it would make things easier".


Well NEWSFLASH bro, we don't buy it anymore. Breaking up isn't an easy process and sure isn't fun so stop it with the word games and get to the point, we're not on some game show!

People who think that this sentence makes it easier to break up, they're just wrong.
In fact it makes it harder to let go of someone you love deeply when you don't know why you're letting go.

No one ever thought that five simple words like these could leave you scarred and baffled for quite some time trying to figure out what you've done wrong or what you could've done differently to stop this from happening.
Exes are hard to forget and even harder to get over when you don't have a reason to leave them in your past.

Next time you wanna break up with your partner try using an honest, valid reason for the break up (I cheated on you twice , I hate your mum or your best friend is way hotter than you'll ever be) , and if you were to use the "it's not you, it's me" line, then try to add something that your partner will hate you for, for example: "its not you, its me, I have Herpes" or "its not you, its me, I don't like you anymore".

 10 awesome valentine gifts for long distance relationships
Spending valentine's alone, but still want them to know you're there? Well long-distance relationships can be tricky especially on a day like this but don't worry you've come to the right place.


Here's a list of 10 romantic gestures that will help refresh and flourish your relationship no matter how far away you are:

1. Send yourself as a gift. This can be done in 2 ways; you can show up at their doorstep (if your bank account allows it) as a surprise or you can send items that will remind them of you, for example your pillow, favorite mix-tape or tee-shirt (with your smell on them and spray some of your favorite perfume on it).

2. Give them a teddy bear you had since you were little. For some reason it does help bring you closer

 

3. Go in on a date. Get the telephone or webcam (using MSN messenger or Skype), dress up, rent a movie and watch it together or just hang out as if on a real date. It sounds wacky, I know but it does make you feel better.

4. Send photos by making a collage of all your favorite photos together or photos of things that remind you of them.

5. Send flowers, chocolates, fruit baskets or gifts to their house. Order online and let the shipping address be their address. Try to think of something creative or send something they said they always wanted.


6. One thing that's usually missing in long distance relationships is the romantic gestures that you encounter daily.


No one said LD relationships are easy so this one is a bit of a task.


We recommend writing thoughtful notes on 365 candy wrappers, wrapping up candies and instructing your significant other to open one each day for a year (hard? yes , but very thoughtful).
A similar idea is writing a journal with one love note for each day you will be apart.

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7. Make a paper chain by linking circular strips of paper together.


The chain should be as long as you will be apart. For every day that passes rip off one of the links, this will help the days fly by.

 
8. Buy two copies of the same book, take one and give them one so you can read it at the same time. This will help you find common grounds and make interesting conversation.


9. My personal favorite, send them a gourmet basket of their favorite cheese or jams with a personalized note in them.


Have breakfast together (online) before you head to work.


10. The last but not least, make a home-made pack of cards.


Place five "get out of jail" cards (to get him out of the dog house when you fight), five "veto" cards to give him the right to object to anything you say (remember if you're going to give him this right, don't hold a grudge), five" all the home-cooked meals you want "cards, five " all you want done cards", five back rub cards, five " I'll listen to you talking about sports with un-divided attention" cards , five " ill change the channel even if I'm watching gossip girls" cards , five " 5 minutes of complaining with no arguing " cards , five "can't and won't get out of bed" cards , five " apology accepted" cards (doesn't apply for cheating , lying or anything stupid like that).

The last three cards could be joker cards (ill laugh at your jokes hard in front of people you want to impress).

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone
Love makes you stronger!
Nope, love does not make you stronger, but eating healthy and exercising do!

Love is sweet surrender!
Love is not a sweet surrender, nor is it a sour one either, it has nothing to do with surrender, holding out, defeat or winning..it's plainly not a game.


Love makes the world a better place! (sometimes stated: Love can heal the world)
Global warming, ozone layer depletion, erosion, WWI, WWII, the Arab-Israeli conflict, Somali famines, civil wars, HIV, Swine Flu, Caligula, Hitler, The French revolution, crusades, massacres,….the world has never been and will never be a better place just because of love!

Love is heaven!
For god's sake! No one has ever returned from the after life and started telling tales about it! How could you know for sure?!
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And responses go on like that forever!


Some might think I'm such a pessimist, or that my comments are annoying, or perhaps even pedantic, but that's not the case at all, I'm just another digit of the figure searching and excavating for a convincing, fulfilling explanation.

I went through all of these states and found out that you cannot depict life all blooming and picturesque because the second you realize that it has many faces, and that it actually stared at you with one of her ugliest ones, you'll hate love that made you dwell in such an unrealistic "color".

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How to win them over!

You don't need love, hate, success, failure, money, fame, or anything to make you feel stronger, it comes from within..as for weakness or surrender, I believe we are only as weak as we allow ourselves to be.


Love does not make you wake up every morning all merry and thinking that life's a better place, because the echo of the anchor man on the TV declaring the death of war victims had reached 5198716870871 child and 5486197435 women would still be echoing in your head.

Seasons would change, you'll get strong one day only to get weaker on the other, and you will wake up to find that the world's still shitty, life remains an unfair b*tch, war hasn't ended, there's a new epidemic outbreak, someone accidently removed your toothbrush cap, and you won't be getting a present from Santa Claus this year just because you're a grown up now!

But LOVE is the only thing that makes it all embraceable and bearable! Love is the magic that makes you 100% realistic..and loving it!

Love is when you become realistically unable to picture your life tomorrow..a week after..or a hundred years later without the one you love!

Love is when you realistically believe that your partner will find the formula and the chemical reaction that would make you both dissolve into each other.

Love is when you realistically no longer care if you look dumb or goofy in front of people as long as it puts a smile upon your partner's face.

Love is when you realistically like the idea of not having a penny in your pocket and realistically enjoy a simple walk, on condition that you feel your partner's hand squeezing yours.

Love is waking up realistically knowing that life's not any better, but you still have a smile on your face!

Love is when you realistically enjoy sharing an ice-cream scoop with your partner, only to laugh your heart out after you both confess the truth about its horrible taste!

Love is when you realistically can't remember any good memory that doesn't involve your partner.

Love is when you realistically –and unbelievably- save your French fries side dish for your partner to have.

Love is when you realistically miss your partner while you're sitting next to them.

Love is when you realistically call everybody by your partner's name.

Love is when you realistically get butterflies in your stomach when see your partner..for the 48135753068754th time in your life!

Love is when you realistically still blush and get goosebumps whenever your partner whispers "I love you" in your ear.

Love is when you realistically know for sure that your existence is totally related to that of your partner's!

Love is when you realistically ultimately believe that your partner is the truest human being on earth!!
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I'm not a writer, nor am I even trying to be. I'm not a philosopher, nor am I even pretending to be.
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I'm just another truth seeker, who happens to be madly and realistically..in love!

 

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